[Chaa]

Next time he acts up, blindside him then roflstomp his ass. Get friend 2 to side with you.

[S13driftAZ]

Chaa, on 21 October 2011 - 01:02 PM, said:

Next time he acts up, blindside him then roflstomp his ass. Get friend 2 to side with you.

thats what im talking about!

[exsea]

theres a saying

anger is like a burning sword

you can cause tremendous damage with it


oh and dont forget...

this isnt an rpg, this is real life, the burning sword is hot, the longer you hold it the more heat you'll have to endure.

and you ll get burnt


TLDR : just forget about it man, whenever i experience shit like this i d look on the brightside and tell myself its good that i can see the person's true colors and act accordingly

[S13driftAZ]

exsea, on 24 October 2011 - 07:46 PM, said:

theres a saying

anger is like a burning sword

you can cause tremendous damage with it

Yes, unless your halcyon or semaj who has little girly wrists!

[CrossXchaos]

exsea, on 24 October 2011 - 06:46 PM, said:

anger is like a burning sword

you can cause tremendous damage with it

LMAO +1
I steal this nao

[HiddenStar]

S13driftAZ, on 25 October 2011 - 05:27 AM, said:

Yes, unless your halcyon or semaj who has little girly wrists!

XD

[jeof96]

Sigh......
I can still see annoying things from him.....
For example, my favorites is becomes also his favorites......
The person who I idolize, he always copy me......

http://img846.images...6/1974/renz.png

[HiddenStar]

Do you have that at the end of your name as well? I guess that is pretty annoying, but, well, ya know, if he likes him as well, you can't tell for sure, but hey, see if it gets better at all.

I remember when my friend acted like this, I'd post something on facebook, and he would "like" 80% of my posts, it was so annoying, specially seeming as I'd specifically kept out of contact with him for months

This post has been edited by HiddenStar: 30 October 2011 - 07:13 PM

[jeof96]

HiddenStar, on 31 October 2011 - 03:11 AM, said:

Do you have that at the end of your name as well? I guess that is pretty annoying, but, well, ya know, if he likes him as well, you can't tell for sure, but hey, see if it gets better at all.

I remember when my friend acted like this, I'd post something on facebook, and he would "like" 80% of my posts, it was so annoying, specially seeming as I'd specifically kept out of contact with him for months

No, I don't put anything besides my name....
I feel sorry sorry for him, he likes to pretend that he's that person.(the last name enclosed with parenthesis.)
That name is a boy from South Korea, I think that Korean is a guitar prodigy.
He always tells us that he's Great as that boy.
Sometimes I just keep my mouth shut, even though its annoying.
He also likes to defeat me in every aspect, I find it annoying.....
We all people have pros & cons, and I always tell him that, still he never listens....

[HiddenStar]

My old friend tries to win everything. I either stop speaking to him as soon as he does it, or I've said something completely ridiculous cus I know he'll argue back and it amuses me when he doesn't realise:P

What connection do you have to sungha jung, or did your friend find out about him on his own? A lot of people have people they aspire to be like, like sport stars and stuff. It's nothing out of the ordinary.

[jeof96]

HiddenStar, on 31 October 2011 - 05:56 PM, said:

My old friend tries to win everything. I either stop speaking to him as soon as he does it, or I've said something completely ridiculous cus I know he'll argue back and it amuses me when he doesn't realise:P

What connection do you have to sungha jung, or did your friend find out about him on his own? A lot of people have people they aspire to be like, like sport stars and stuff. It's nothing out of the ordinary.

Well, that korean boy is nothing to me...... Just that annoying friend likes to copy what's mine.......
When I told him about that prodigy, he also made that boy his idol......
Right now, I'm buggling if he will also copy what course I will take at College, but if he also does that, I'll give him a real smack in the face.
I don't know If he does it intentional...... Same as if I'll have a girlfriend, If he does something to her, I'll unleash hell in front of him.

[S13driftAZ]

jeof96, on 30 October 2011 - 05:59 AM, said:

For example, my favorites is becomes also his favorites......
he always copy me......

You sure this person isnt a teenage girl?

Weird.

[jeof96]

S13driftAZ, on 01 November 2011 - 02:21 PM, said:

You sure this person isnt a teenage girl?

Weird.

I try my best to ignore it.

[HiddenStar]

TBH, it just sounds like he's either being a dick without realizing it, he genuinely shares all the same interests as you, or he's just a dick.

Personally, I'd just have dropped him by now

[Hguols]

Hi Jeof96.
I don't know if any of my wisdom will be of any help, but I want you to take a careful look at something.

Some people, whether they're you're friends or not, have a knack for pushing "buttons" because it gets them a certain type of attention they're subconscious strives for. I think it has to do with power and/or control.

Here's an example that's not a person. My cat. I've figured out that if she feels like she's being ignored, she'll scratch on a potted plant I have in my living room. She has several scratch posts, but she's not wanting to sharpen her claws, she's wanting the attention. Since my wife and I have a tendency to drop everything to get the cat off the tree, what better way for her to get our attention? It works all the time.

I feel you're friend is imitating you because you react to it. Chances are, he wouldn't do it if he didn't think you'd make some sort of a response. Its one thing to voice your dislike, and its another to have it written all over your face. Trying to use reverse psychology probably won't make things better as you're still giving him the attention he's seeking. He's probably not looking for a good or bad reaction, but just a reaction, period.

My recommendation is to ignore the imitation, but not him. I would still try to hold to your end of the friendship, but in regards to the imitation, make no positive or negative remarks, no positive or negative facial expressions, don't remove yourself when he imitates you... He'll eventually try to get attention somewhere else; that probably depends on how patient he is and how impatient you are.
(^ - ^ )

Hopefully, somewhere along the line, he'll grow up a little bit and realize that he doesn't need that kind of attention.

Hey! Congratulations on being a multi-instrumentalist! I'm one of those too! *coughs and points to sig*
( ^ - ^)

This post has been edited by Hguols: 01 November 2011 - 07:42 PM

[S13driftAZ]

jeof96, on 01 November 2011 - 02:47 AM, said:

I try my best to ignore it.

The best thing you can do. Well, almost.

[jeof96]

Hguols, on 02 November 2011 - 03:40 AM, said:

Hi Jeof96.
I don't know if any of my wisdom will be of any help, but I want you to take a careful look at something.

Some people, whether they're you're friends or not, have a knack for pushing "buttons" because it gets them a certain type of attention they're subconscious strives for. I think it has to do with power and/or control.

Here's an example that's not a person. My cat. I've figured out that if she feels like she's being ignored, she'll scratch on a potted plant I have in my living room. She has several scratch posts, but she's not wanting to sharpen her claws, she's wanting the attention. Since my wife and I have a tendency to drop everything to get the cat off the tree, what better way for her to get our attention? It works all the time.

I feel you're friend is imitating you because you react to it. Chances are, he wouldn't do it if he didn't think you'd make some sort of a response. Its one thing to voice your dislike, and its another to have it written all over your face. Trying to use reverse psychology probably won't make things better as you're still giving him the attention he's seeking. He's probably not looking for a good or bad reaction, but just a reaction, period.

My recommendation is to ignore the imitation, but not him. I would still try to hold to your end of the friendship, but in regards to the imitation, make no positive or negative remarks, no positive or negative facial expressions, don't remove yourself when he imitates you... He'll eventually try to get attention somewhere else; that probably depends on how patient he is and how impatient you are.
(^ - ^ )

Hopefully, somewhere along the line, he'll grow up a little bit and realize that he doesn't need that kind of attention.

Hey! Congratulations on being a multi-instrumentalist! I'm one of those too! *coughs and points to sig*
( ^ - ^)

Thanks Hguols!
Okay I'll listen to your advice.

Speaking of music, what Genre is your favorite?
Mine is Pop, I second metal.

[Hguols]

jeof96, on 01 November 2011 - 11:50 PM, said:

Speaking of music, what Genre is your favorite?
Mine is Pop, I second metal.

Black metal would have to be my fave.
I do like some death metal..

Next up, classical music!